Monday, January 20, 2020

The White Guilt of Reverend Rob Lee




At four o'clock on a pleasant Saturday afternoon in January, I visited the beautiful St. John's Episcopal Church in midtown Tulsa to hear Rev. Robert W. Lee IV tell us why he is ashamed to be related to his great uncle Robert E. Lee. Because he's ashamed, why didn't he just stay at home in North Carolina?

His lecture on historical wrongs was delivered in a church which is part of a Church founded by a king who wanted to divorce his wife so that he could marry his mistress, whom he later executed. In so doing, this king seized Church properties and killed priests. I took many notes during his talk so you can know his views, and I shall tell you mine.

He talked about when he was growing up, he was proud of being being a descendant of Robert E. Lee. He had a Confederate battle flag in his room. He also had a religious inclination and decided he wanted to enter the ministry. Along the way, a black woman he knew told him his having a Confederate battle flag was not conducive to the Christian life. "I needed to change so that I could change others." He later became the pastor of a United Church of Christ church in North Carolina. It was after the 2017 events in Charlottesville, Virginia where a riot broke out between white nationalists (neo-Nazis) and ANTIFA (anti-Fascists, who are Communists or anarchists) over a statue of General Robert E. Lee, that Rev. Lee decided to speak out. He was given the opportunity to do so at the MTV (Music Television) awards while wearing his clerical garb. He used the event to denounce "white supremacy and a society built on white supremacy" symbolized by his great uncle. For his appearance on MTV, he was fired by his church, which was remarkable because the United Church of Christ is very liberal in its theological/political leanings. He continued his crusade by going on the televison show The View and later National Public Radio. "The Gospel calls me [because] of my name and my privilege." He compared himself to Rev. Martin Luther King Jr. and Nat Turner, the 19th century slave turned pastor in Virginia who led a four-days slave rebellion in Southampton County, Virginia in 1831, killing about 60 white men, women, and children. Rev. Lee did not elaborate about who Nat Turner was or what he did.

He said he's ashamed of Robert E. Lee because he chose to fight for slavery by fighting for the South. As for his legacy he said, "The South lost the war but won in the history books." He went on to say, for example, "Texas history books are inherently racist."

As for the 1921 race war in Tulsa, Rev. Lee did not hesitate to lecture, "It's the elephant in the room," saying Tulsans are shying away from what happened. Since he doesn't live in Tulsa, he really knows nothing about what is being done to address the events of 1921 in which white mobs, agitated by the local newspapers' reportage that a black man was accused of assaulting a white woman in an elevator, descended on the black neighborhood leveling several blocks of homes and businesses, killing many. The actual numbers are not known. "We have to seek atonement and amends," he said.

Atonement and amends were the themes of Rev. Lee's talk. White people are bad, and they need to get out their sackcloths and ashes.  He also said we needed to have "dialogue" about these things.

There were questions submitted in writing, some of which were read aloud by the Rev. Samuel Colley-Toothaker of St. John's, who said he didn't want to take questions from the floor due to time....Okay.
One question was about Colin Kapernick, the former San Fransciso 49ers football player who knelt during the singing of the national anthem. "You're telling him to stand is assimilation," said Rev. Lee. He went on to lament that black athletes labor for the benefit of white sports teams' owners.

One of the questions read aloud was would Rev. Lee name any of his sons Robert? He said no. "We value what we name." He said he doesn't value being related to Robert E. Lee.

He admitted that if he could have dinner with one historical figure, it would be his famous uncle, to whom he referred as "a man's man in the 19th century." Perhaps he would have a different prespective had they dined together?

A question came up about the Black Lives Matter movement. Did he believe this to be true or should it be "All Lives Matter?" He said as a Christian, all lives matter, but black people are so put upon by our racist society that they must take precedence.

All things considered, his talk was elitist and condescending. He was saying to those wealthy, white midtowners that they, and they alone, can improve the lives of black people. I saw three black people in the church that day. "To those of us with power and privilege," he said to the august gathering, "I look around and see opulence." He left us with the idea that black people can't do it on their own. They are weak victims of life in America who cannot help themselves and to suggest otherwise is cruel and racist.

After Rev. Lee's lecture in the church there was a reception in the hall next to the sanctuary. Rev. Lee met an older man who mentioned that General Lee had the total loyality of his soldiers. Rev. Lee admitted, "He did command respect, I'll tell you that."

Then I asked him a couple of questions. Because he mentioned being inspired by the women's march which, is an abortion march, I asked him his abortion position. He said, "I'm pro-choice; we shouldn't govern women's bodies." I asked him how he could have that position as a clergyman because science has indisputably established the baby in the womb is a human life. He told me he didn't think the abortion topic was germane to his talk and he didn't want to talk to me about that.

My second question concerned his position on statues and "white supremacy." I mentioned students at Tufts University in Massachusetts are trying to remove a statue of Thomas Jefferson for the same reasons as taking down Confederate statues i.e. slavery and "white supremacy." He said, "If Tufts sees it [Thomas Jefferson] as a symbol of white supremacy, then take it down." He then dismissed my argument saying he rejects the slippery slope argument even though he just admitted he would have the Jefferson statue removed. At this point, Rev. Lee was done with me and said he didn't want to talk to me anymore. So much for his call for dialogue.

Reverend Robert W. Lee IV is in my book a bad actor. He's kind of like Joel Osteen in that both are "reverends;" both are good talkers, and both use their positions and abilities to promote their private agendas. Osteen uses flowery inspriational "pep talks" to get money and Rob Lee uses guilt to get notoriety and power for his agenda. And both men do not promote the Gospel of Jesus Christ.

"I'm a Christian," he said many times.